Listening to talk radio today or watching your favorite TV talking head you might be inclined to believe that the demise of America is at hand and is the fault of that “other” political party. Honestly, as much as I don’t like what either political party is doing, I don’t believe that America’s demise will be because of the “other” party or those who adhere to its principles. 
I am conservative. The Republicans may have never become the party of true conservatism but they are a tad closer than the Democrats. The Republicans at least speak the language. But Democrats aren’t what’s wrong with America. I can deal with Democrats. At least they’re engaged in the process and have something they believe in. As much as I might disagree with his or her values, I can engage in a dialog with anyone who is informed and participatory.
No, the real villain is the uninvolved, uninformed American who drove to work on Nov 4, of last fall and said, “Mmm? There’s an awful long line at library. Must be a new Harry Potter book just come out.” 
But it’s more than involvement that makes this country strong. It’s ambition. I had the good fortune to see a fair part of the world on Uncle Sam’s dime and one generalization remains with me. Americans know ambition. Ambition is what makes us the greatest nation on earth. We WANT to be the best (the fact that we have the resources to be the best is an article for another day).
I went car shopping Friday afternoon. The salesman was a young man, let’s call him Nassir (that’ll make his parents happy because that’s his name). Nassir is from Afghanistan by way of Germany and Holland (let’s call it Holland since The Netherlands takes longer to type). I asked him about his time in Europe. He was effusive in his praise of the people and his education; but that begat the question, “Why, my friend, venture westward to our fair colonies?”
His answer was, “I have ambition.”
I couldn’t have said it better myself.
People around the world want to come to America to satisfy their ambition. Ambition remains the driver behind our immigration issues.
What we don’t do as well is “contentment.” Let’s give credit where credit is due: the Europeans seem to do contentment better. For Pete’s sake, Spain built their entire daily schedule around a nap. THAT’S a contented people.
I remember watching the 2004 Summer Olympics from Athens. Each night, long past midnight, the Greeks were out with friends, socializing and enjoying the festivities. A reporter asked if this was just because of the Olympics and the revelers said, alas, “No. We do this all the time.” Our savvy journalist, doing as she was taught, had a follow up question: “Don’t you have jobs to get to in the morning.” Their response was “We’ll get there when we get there.”
These are not the responses of a driven-people. But it does seem like a nice way to go through life.
That’s the American dilemma. We’re the best because it important to us to succeed and achieve, but it comes at a cost.
And so I wonder about a new trend in American business. Business Week recently had an article titled A SANER WORKPLACE (June 1, 2009). The article is an excerpt from a new book, Womenomics: Write Your Own Rules for Success. From the book we find that:
-Half of American workers want fewer hours
-Half of us would change our schedules
-More than half would trade money for a day off
-Three quarters of us want flexible work options.
The book goes on.
“More and more workers of both sexes are willing to scale back career goals, according to Families and Work Institute data. “Reduced aspirations do not mean employees are not talented or good at what they do,” explains Lois Backon, a vice-president at the Institute. “Most do want to feel engaged by their jobs. But in focus groups they also say things like ‘I need to make these choices because my family is a priority’ or ‘I need to make these choices to make my life work.”
As it turns out these trends are good for the bottom line. But are they good for America? I have serious concerns that the trends brought to light in this book are an impediment to maintaining American Exceptionalism. Therapists and social anthropologists are likely to tell us that a laissez-faire corporate culture is good for our shareholders, our health and our overall sense of well-being.
I have no doubt we would probably be happier people. But would we better off? 
In the end it may not be those misguided souls from the “other” party that are the catalyst for a decline in American Exceptionalism. It may be folks who take to heart Jefferson’s “pursuit of Happiness.”
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But on the more important substantive issues, it was full of contradictions and misleading statements. He talked about being knocked down as a child and how his mother taught him to pick himself up. (Great lesson) Later, though, he lamented that at a time when so many Americans have been knocked down, Washington has done so little to help them get back up. (I thought, Senator, the point was to learn to pick YOURSELF up.)
He talked about how the most important aspect of work is that it provides the benefit of dignity and respect to Americans; but he then prattled on about how the work people have doesn't pay enough.
He talked about how tax breaks for corporations, which McCain supports, send jobs overseas. No, Joe, they don't. Tax breaks for corporations brings jobs home; companies have been sending jobs overseas because it already costs TOO MUCH to do business within the US.
He talked about a "promise that their tomorrow will be better than their yesterday." Who is making that promise, Senator? Only we can make our tomorrow better. Government can't and if government is promising that, and Americans want that, then this is the discussion that we should be having in America.
He quoted John McCain on Afghanistan from 3 years ago and Barack Obama on Afghanistan from 1 year ago. Why not break out a quote from McCain on Georgia from years ago and a quote from Obama on Georgia from last week?
Viewers of this speech who pay attention to his words, will not have been impressed with the content or the medium.
However, the speech itself probably did little. She certainly had nothing to say that might sway Republicans to rethink their party affiliation. Furthermore, absent too were talking points that independents might find attractive. The speech seemed to have two purposes. First, convince her supporters to vote for Obama. But who else were they going to vote for? Those people involved enough in politics to be at or watch on tv the DNC convention are also likely to be people who will value their vote and not stay at home. Those who might elect not to vote at all, certainly were not in attendance and might well have been watching America's Got Talent and missed the speech completely.
Secondly, and more importantly to Mrs. Clinton, the speech was littered with reminders of why she should remain relevant in the Democratic Party. This was a "You Picked the Wrong Guy" speech.
Will we remember her or this speech in 4 or 8 years? I suspect not. The speech didn't brand itself with any tag lines that might survive the next few years. But it was a hell of an effort.
I believe not attending to these differences is the cause of the apparent divide in American thought. True conservatism (not that practiced by the Republicans) understands the importance of relationships between people and values those relationships over the individual. The whole is indeed greater than the sum of the parts. Liberal ideology seeks to raise the needs and desires of the individual above the collective good. This is where the Libertarians lose most Americans. Intuitively, Americans sense the error of the "my liberty is more important than the collective good" ethos and shun the movement. Neither the modern Democratic Party nor the Republican Party has found a way to tap into the American belief in Freedom while simultaneously bonding us to society. This is the time for Democratic and Republican ideologies to be replaced by less "me" centered thinking and our nation should return to its ideological roots, which means that we understand our obligation to each other to value and defend each other's freedom, not just our own.
The Democratic support that the super delegates are so keen on being a part of should be viewed as something of a mirage. What would the delegate count be if the events of the last month had taken place in December? Would Obama have as much support as he does now? Would he be the presumed candidate? And yet the Obama of today is the one the Democrats are likely to insist represents their party. The Obama that sees middle America as "clingers," the Obama that wouldn't repudiate Wright but is now quite right to repudiate, this is the Obama that will face McCain in November. For a party as down on America as this one, an Obama nomination seems awfully optimistic. Perhaps, it's not just Michigan and Florida that need a do-over: perhaps the Democrats ought to have a national do-over.
Sure he's liberal. Liberal we can handle. Heck even socialist we can handle. We have systems in place to deal with presidential initiatives which we ultimately don't approve of. But relinquishing any control to any kind of world organization is very troubling. Being outside of our borders and constitution, we could find ourselves subject to a body we don't agree with and yet have few ways to get out from under its jurisdiction. This is a slippery slope. I fear Obama's need to be liked and validated will prompt him to try to enter the U.S. into many global initiatives.
I'm afraid I just don't believe that her feelings are the result of poorly timed contemplation. My understanding is that the family was present for the photo shoot and got to see the picture in advance. They liked it and moved on. NOW all of a sudden Miley is embarrassed? These are smart people familiar with the media. I, of course, have no inside information, this is just my opinion, but it would appear she wants to have her cake and eat it too: do the photo shoot (be edgy, become known to new demographics) and then make a heartfelt apology to appease the core fan group.
Is Obama smart enough to see the error of his proposal to meet with such foreign leaders? Probably not. Too impressed with his own palaver, he'll stand by his words. But can McCain and the GOP make the same connection and exploit Carter's follies as empirical evidence that they were correct in postulating what such visits from US dignitaries would bring about?
His words address the inherently conservative values (not republican--conservative) most Americans believe in. But he also points out that while we believe in them, we don't LIVE them. His article can be, and should be, a call for personal change. It will be an exciting read for the number of times you exclaim (too loudly for those sipping coffee nearby) "Yes!" Although, if I'm honest, it is depressing on a national scale because I know most Americans act on their immediate desires and not on the values they hold most sacred. But, in the end, change starts at home.
June 23, 2009 at 12:48 am
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Thx!